Showing posts with label Leaving. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Leaving. Show all posts

Tuesday, 7 October 2014

Arrival to Rio



I've finally decided to write a little again, because we finally have two basic requirements: a permanent apartment, and our own internet connection.

So, we moved to Rio De Janeiro this August :) .

Our first impressions are mixed, as usual. Rio is a big city, with lots of people, lots of cars, lots of neighbourhoods. It’s a busy city, much bigger than Barcelona. It has lots of mountain ranges, lots of green areas, and lots of residential zones and places to walk around. It’s also a nice change from Adler, since we have more options of apartments, shops, and things to do in general. 

However, Rio also is a very dirty city, with greyish buildings, lack of efficient public transport, old constructions and styles…and there’s a lot of poverty around (no, we haven’t visited any favelas, but we have seen quite a lot of them from a distance), and it’s also less secure than Sochi or Barcelona.

People are really nice here. Most people are helpful and attentive, and they love children. Strangers usually stop in the street to say something to Elay, and everybody treats him quite nicely. Most people smile a lot when attending you. 

At the same time, traffic is terrible and aggressive. They don’t respect pedestrians like in Adler, while driving in a similar way that causes huge traffic jams. Motorbikes, meanwhile, ignore any type of rule, security or common sense and beep around as if that would be enough to get right of way.  Personalities change a lot when they are behind a vehicle…

The weather has been rather nice. You can see it is normal to have some clouds around and sometimes its rainy or stormy, but we arrived in the middle of “deep winter”, and that only meant that it was rainy and that temperatures went below 20° Celsius (even reaching 18° clearly a cold wave). When it’s sunny we easily reach 30°. That’s “Winter”. We don’t want to imagine “Summer”….At least, it seems it is not as humid as Singapore or other such regions...

The first month and a half was not the easiest period. We started in a temporary apartment, but it was booked just for a week. Then we had to move to a second temporary apartment, where we luckily stayed until we found our permanent one. The temporary apartments were…barely adequate, to say it politely, but it was enough for us, for a while. 

We had to do a lot of paperwork. Brazil loves bureaucracy, and the amount of useless papers you need to make is insane. For example, you may need to notarize your signature and notarize documents. But nobody really cares about it, they don’t check signatures and who are you that closely, they just want to have a stamp from a notary. To live here you also need 3 different documents, and to work you need a 4th one. Most of these documents are fast enough to make, but you need to queue first, and that can take several hours. Which makes no sense, because they have timetables and numbers….

Lots of people here are really inefficient. It took us a lot of time to get the apartment, and lots of this time was wasted in administrative steps or going through agencies, which have hundreds of other clients and cannot attend your demands, while a simple direct call to the owners would be enough.
You can also see that there is lots of corruption, since lots of apartment owners want to rent the place without declaring it, and even get angry or increase the price when mentioning that you will do everything legally. 

My office is pretty awesome, new and nice (with cafeterias and a small terrace/garden), and it’s next to the subway so we needed a place connected to the local subway. The subway in Rio is quite limited, it has only 2 lines so far, and they share a big amount of stops. Most of it communicates the “Zona Sul” with the actual centre of the city, so we have been searching apartments in the Zona Sul, Rio’s posh area for tourist and expats. 

Initially we wanted to live in Ipanema, which is extremely nice, but it is also more touristic, less safe and further from work. It is also very expensive, so in the end we found a nice place in Botafogo, further from the beach but still 10-15 minutes away from Copacabana or Ipanema in subway. It is a very residential are, with plenty of shops and a couple of shopping malls around. 

The ideal area, where everybody wants to live now, is called Barra. It’s extremely residential, very nice and clean, with lots of commerce, clean beaches, new buildings, and cheap rents. It’s also 2 hours away from the centre by car thanks to traffic (unless you wake up at 05:30 and go to the centre at that time), and it has no subway, so we discarded that option quite fast. Botafogo is older and not as nice, but our building is quite new. 

In here it is very normal to have common areas and services in the building. You usually need to pay some extra for them, but even in buildings that have nothing you may pay 100 euros or so for them, so it was worth investigating, to find a building with nice services. The one we have chosen has, among other things, 24-hours security, a park for kids, a swimming pool and a gym, so we’re quite happy it^^. We haven’t used the pool yet (we have been less than 2 weeks in the building, and last 2 weekends were annoyingly cold or we had other things to do), but it’s nice to know we can go there if temperatures get crazy.

The apartment itself is quite new, and while not very big, is more than enough for us, while having room for visits too. (So, everybody’s invited^^). 

We haven't done much toursim yet, because with Elay it's not as easy. There are very green and tall mountains (like the Pao de Açúcar or the Corcovado) that make the landscape look awesome, and the combination of these weird mountains and the beaches is beautiful. However, we do have walked around, and gone to plenty of restaurants. Local food is pretty awesome, and the fruits and juices are simply incredible....

After the first days of paranoia, the city does not seem as dangerous as you would think. There is plenty of people in the street most of the time, and the Zona Sul and the workplace are quite busy all the time. I don't doubt that walking in areas with less people is not healthy for you or your wallet, but things are not as bad as one would imagine, and we're told the city has imporved a lot in the past few years.

All in all, it's quite an interesting place :). We'll see how it goes...




Sunday, 26 January 2014

Our Lasts 2 Months In Russia

We're starting the last phases of the project.

Next month we will be very busy, at least when it comes to the amount of hours we will be working. We will be doing lots of long shifts, including night work. This always destroys you, and by the end I will be completely exhausted, regardless of how good or how bad the final result is.

Depending on how this goes, I'll write a post later on about our last impressions in Russia, but I can already say we're happy to go. We have lived well here, but it's not an easy place, and we prefer to live in places where, for example, you don't usually need to worry about having electricity.

These last months have been a lot of fun with Elay. He has grown a lot (as all babies do, but once you notice the changes in past photos and behavior, it's amazing), and for a long time now he reacts to us, smiles, laughs and "talks" with us (well, he makes sounds in your direction, and he's clearly trying to tell you something).

It's really funny^^.

He has started to be more mobile, but we don't need to worry yet about him crawling. We just have noticed that sometimes we leave him on a little carpet with drawings and toys, for kids, and when we look again, he has moved 180 degrees.

He has also learned to grab things, and even to throw them away. He still hasn't enough control, but he has a clear idea. For example, when we put him in bed to sleep he starts grabbing his pacifier and raising it while staring at it. Then he tries to put it back into his mouth, but it usually ends up in his neck, or even in his nose. Of course, this prevents him from relaxing enough to fall asleep, and we need to grab his hands sometimes so he doesn't keep grabbing the pacifier...then again, when he wants, he just spits it.

He started to like toys, with clear favorites that get him all excited and nervous. There are also certain movements (like flexing his legs, or tickling him) that usually makes him laugh, and it's really nice to hear^^.

Apart from enjoying our baby, this next two months we will need to prepare to move out again.

This time we will have the help of our company, but the process is very stressful and we get tired just of thinking about it. Of course, one of the main problems is that we do not have enough space in Barcelona for all our things, and we don't know what are we going to do next so it's unclear if we should rent or use some storage service...oh well...

Right now, we will just enjoy living here together a little bit more^^

Tuesday, 20 August 2013

Erasmus Anniversary

5 years ago, (plus a couple of days) I left Barcelona to finish my university degree in Lund, Sweden. That was one of the best decisions I've taken, and I really loved my time there and all the people I met there.

This is not the first time I had a similar experience, and probably not the last.

When I was 17, I participated in an exchange program in my high school. For a week, I had a Swedish girl (Marianne) living in my house and visiting my high school (together with other Swedes). This was the first time I was in such an international environment, and the first time I had to actively use English to communicate. The ones that participated in it also got to skip some classes, and it was really awesome. I made a friend, and I keep contact with her more than with most people in my high school. When we visited Sweden in return, it was also a great experience, seeing another culture and other ways to do things while using another language that was not our own.

That same year I did Santiago's way with my parents. This is a 740 km long route in the north-west of Spain, done in around 30 days. The origin is religious, but we did it just because we enjoyed walking and visiting new places. While doing it we met lots of nice and different people from all around the world, and one of the people I met was a girl from U.K, that introduced me to the fact that English music is fucking awesome. I already knew that, but I was not fully conscious of how bad the music in Spain was, I believe. This also increased my curiosity regarding U.K, and made me want to visit it and even live there some day. After the way, we lost contact with most of the people, even if we still keep in touch with a few. I realised a simple thing there: Doing the same path again would not feel the same way, because the people walking with me would be different. This way was done, and it would be impossible to repeat it. However, that does not mean you need to stop enjoying walking, or that you need to become obsessed with that single time when everything was so good and the people were so nice.

When I was 18, inspired by last year's meetings and trips, I went to England alone, and visited several cities there. I had great experiences, and I had a first contact with a country that has a wide range of defects, but also has quite nice qualities. After the first trip, I returned quite shortly to attend a music festival with the girl we met during the way and other people. It was great, and I repeated the trip a few more years. I lost contact with that girl, but I met great people while in the festival, people I never met again but oh well.

After this I had to study hard at university, but I did manage to make some nice trips, like the year I went to China for a month with some friends. The cultural shock was quite brutal, but it was really interesting and we survived somehow, even when we were basically backpacking around the place and searching places to stay from one day to the next.

Finally, before ending university I wanted to enjoy university life to the fullest before starting to work, and I went for an Erasmus, as I mentioned.

During an Erasmus you meet lots of people from all around the world, and you really have incredible amounts of fun. It is incredible to call some people you know, just grab the bike and go to some party somewhere. At least, to learn if you enjoy these things or not, and also to learn how to live by yourself and take care of things, organise events, meet and communicate, and all that.

I met my wife there, thanks to a Japanese common friend that I met on the very first day, while trying to find a supermarket to buy some basic survival food. We started dating later on, but without living there, without meeting by chance a person who was just also looking for food, that would have not happened. We always have fun with the fact that a Lithuanian girl and a Spanish boy met in Sweden, obviously. It confuses people a lot ^^.

The first semester was amazing, but of course most people left, and therefore it's the same as in Santiago's way, not possible to really repeat even if we lived there again.

After the Erasmus, I found a job by pure luck in my current company, that offered me the option to continue travelling. I visited Vancouver, and after some years I had (finally) the chance to go and live in U.K., in London.

While working for London Olympics, again I met people from all around the world, and every week there was some party at some pub (even if I didn't go to most of them, there was the option). It reminded us a lot of an Erasmus, actually. In London there were also people I met in Sweden, so my wife and I managed to keep contact with them and meet them, while meeting others who were there working with me. It was also a great experience. London was not as nice as I thought when I was 18, but it was still pretty awesome, the music still was way better than in Spain, and in general we had a great time there. We got married there, and we have an English marriage certificate, as a matter of fact.

Our London life was strangely similar to an Erasmus, and we enjoyed it  a lot too. Afterwards, most co-workers went to their separate ways, and we had the chance to move to Russia and work for Sochi Olympics.

Here again we have met lots of nice people. Here again we have had great experiences.

Our first son (that's the official opinion) will be born here, in a month or even sooner. We will have fun explaining that we're a Lithuanian-Spanish couple that met in Sweden, married in England and had a child in Russia (obviously).

And here again we will leave and it will not be possible to repeat it, but we will take this great experiences and know that we have enjoyed them a lot.

And later on, maybe there will be other countries to visit, other places to live, new people to meet...

Without travels, without Erasmus-like experiences, I would be different. I am married because of Erasmus. We will have a child because of Erasmus. Without Erasmus I might have done these things...or maybe not. But because of Erasmus, these things have happened. And every trip, every second, or third, or fourth Erasmus or pre-Erasmus we have, we enjoy it as if it was the first, even when the people and the places are different and the same conditions are always unrepeatable.

I believe that all these trips and meetings make you open your views, make you learn new things, make your life change for the better. I believe that everybody should have such experiences, if they could. We would be smarter as a society if we would do so.

Finally, I believe that these trips and meetings are really, really funny and nice^^. So don't miss the chance to do them, if you can.

Saturday, 3 November 2012

First week in Adler

After some time of instability, we're finally living in Russia. Right now we're still in the hotel, but this Monday we're supposed to sign the contract for our apartment.

The first impressions have been good, but Russia is indeed a curious country. The place where we will live, Adler, is quite small. It has 3-4 big streets, and the rest of the town is made of little passages and houses. There are a lot of little shops, and we have two shopping malls, that can be reached by a 10-minute walk.

Traffic is awful, there's way too many people using cars to move around, and they drive aggresively, plenty of times ignoring preferences, lights or lanes, and always competing for spaces with other cars. The result is that you can see daily deadlocks in the main street, created by cars trying to turn while other cars are in the way, with no one giving away any ground, and other similar situations.

Luckily, as mentioned, we do not need to use the car in here, we walk everywhere and it takes only a few minutes.

If we feel like going to a bigger place, Sochi's centre is 40 minutes or so (if there are no big traffic jams/deadlocks) away from here using the public buses. We've been there only once, but it's true that feels more like a city. However, if we analyse it, it's a similar situation than in London, where the centre was 40 minutes away, and around our house there was almost nothing, just some shops.

The apartments we can rent are pretty awesome and big, and the one we want to have will give us enough space for guests and parties (so we hope to have people around from time to time). We're meeting new nice people who already live here, and the feeling is similar to London, or to Sweden, where you usually keep meeting people in a similar situation, and since we do not know much of the place we band together. We've already gone to a couple of parties where we've met co-workers, Russians or from other parts of the world.

The hotel we're using right now is quite nice, but it has a major drawback: no internet in the room. This means that we need to go downstairs every time we want to connect, which means that we cannot check things as much as we usually want, or watch series and such things. Anyway, soon enough we'll be able to get internet in our apartment, and we're told it works well enough.

The weather, at the beginning of November, has been quite amazing, sunny and nice, while being temperate and not very hot. At night it's colder, since weather is drier than in Barcelona, but it's still very nice for the month. Before arriving here we had to stop one day in Moscow, and we were at around 3 degrees, it was raining like hell, and when it stopped raining it was to start snowing...

All in all, we believe we can live well in here, we'll see how it goes^^


Wednesday, 5 September 2012

Moving Out

We're finally back in Barcelona, and the last days in London have been quite busy. Moving is always a little bit stressful, and it requires you to do looots of things...

The last week we tried to meet with everybody who's living there, all the time, which required a lot of organising and planning. We more or less managed to see them, but in the end there were some rushed up good-byes and short meetings.

While doing that, we tried to start packing to move out of the apartment. That was quite horrible...

Moving is hard, but moving by using the plane is extra hard, because of the limitations in weight and volume that you have. Even when we already knew we were leaving furniture behind there were lots of things to pack. So, after several failed tries, we managed to send 3 initial packages and start filling the first suitcase. The initial plan was to use 3 suitcases, and that's what we had booked.

After seeing that we were not making much progress, we decided to leave it for the final two days. that's always a nice extra motivation to finish, the fact that there is no more time left. We already had 3 suitcases, but one of them was broken in several spots and we didn't trust it would reach Barcelona with full integrity. Therefore we bought a new cheap one from Tesco, just to survive for this trip, and the night we had to pack everything we threw away the broken one. We checked in to the flight with 3 suitcases, and we were ready to start packing.

We originally came with 3 suitcases, and we also sent 2 packages. We bought some things, but we did get rid of lots of winter clothes in trips to Vilnius and Barcelona, and we sent 3 packages with things we bought while in London. We thought it was going to be the same as our arrival.

Problems started when we finished the first 2 suitcases. We still had way too many things to pack. Clearly it was not going to be enough with one more suitcase. So we got a box from the garage that we still had from a received package and decided we were going to sent another one.

We filled the box, and still there were too many things. Remembering the thrown suitcase, we ran towards the trash, and luckily it was still there. Sure, it was broken, but if we wrapped it in plastic it would probably survive. With 4 suitcases we managed to fit most things, with some left for the hand luggage, but the 4 suitcases weighted close to 24 each. British Airways is generous, but the maximum weight per suitcase is 23, and we didn't want to risk it, so we started a nightmarish process of removing a little thing, weighting the suitcases, putting it somewhere else, and weighting them again.

We finally decided to load all extra kilos in the most resilient one, which reached 28 Kg, and we would pay the 40 pounds charge for one overweight suitcase. At this point it seemed a cheap solution...Only thing left was to add a suitcase to our plane ticket.

So, we proceeded to the flight booking information, and tried to add a suitcase. First, we had some trouble finding a place in the web where the suitcase could be added, but well, we managed to access it after making some google searches. We had the page, and there was a combo box where you mark how many suitcases to add to you booking. The combo box was in the 0 position, so I went and tried to change it....unsuccessfully.

After checking it with several browsers with same results, we read that once you had done the on-line check-in, you could not add more suitcases. That was stupid and made no sense to us...well, except for the fact that if you add them at the airport it was twice the price. This way if you make a mistake they can get more money out of you.

This made us angry, for obvious reasons. It was a cheap trick to get money. Therefore, before surrendering and waiting to be in the airport to add baggage, I went back to the webpage for one last experiment. With Chrome I decided to have a look at the combo box. Indeed, the html code marked it as disabled, and having only the "0 suitcases to add" option. Well, we didn't want that. So I edited it, changed it to "enable", and added a new value in the combo box, a simple "1". With the combo box active, I selected the "1" value, expecting the page to fail in some way.

The javascript function that got activated by changing the combo worked fine, and informed us that we were going to add a suitcase to our booking. Therefore, we sent the "edited" form. This is the step when your information is processed by the server, so it doesn't matter what you did before, the server rechecks everything. All the editing that I did was just for fun, to see how the form would fail when resent. The only thing, it didn't.

Everything was perfectly fine and in order according to the website. We just needed to pay the online fee, and we'd have a nice new suitcase in our booking. We paid, while being rather surprised....but yes, checking the booking from another computer showed 2 suitcases instead of 1. What we did is illegal, we're pretty sure...but we shouldn't be able to do it, and that's illegal as well, not to protect yourself from these things. We paid everything anyway, we just avoided a trick to get money out of customers...

Just in case, we saved the bill of the new suitcase, finished packing somehow, and next day we went to the airport, with the help of Dani Fernandez. We had printed the boarding passes and the bill, and we went to baggage drop. We had one overweight suitcase, but we knew that and it was fine. The clerk there checked our information, and then told us that we only had 3 suitcases.

We kind of expected that, so with the most innocent face we could make, explained that we had bought the extra suitcase, and presented the bill as proof. We said we did that before check-in, and the clerk decided to make a call, I guess to check our booking somewhere else. When he asked about suitcases they told him that it was 4, and the clerk proceeded to say everything's fine and let us drop everything.

So, there was no technical problem in letting us add a suitcase after check-in. They could have added this option and just resend the check-in information if some part of the booking was changed, but they didn't let us, in order to get some extra money the moment we made any mistake...

Anyway, after all this troubles we managed to safely get back to Barcelona. We've been some time there now, and we're getting ready for Sochi, but we won't move there yet. We'll explain more about all these new preparations some other time, in another post :)



Sunday, 1 July 2012

Leaving your home

Today my wife and I enjoyed a little trip to Cambridge. It was a very nice day and we really liked the city. We went there by train, from London, and we managed to get cheap first class tickets, which in this case just means slightly bigger seats and no one around you.

There is always a nice feeling when you're leaving for a trip. Specially when you're in the actual transport that will transfer you from your city to another one (or a town, village, etc..). In a train, that moment is when you see through the window that you started moving, and you leave familiar sights behind. It's a very relaxing experience, knowing that you're in your way.

The first time I travelled alone I took a flight from Barcelona to London, with plans to spend 11 days in England. I had reservations with a number of hotels, but I had to find my way and get to these hotels at the right dates, which was making me a little bit nervous. However, the feeling of freedom I got when the plane started moving was amazing. I was really going there, I didn't know yet what would I do during these days, but it was going to be all right. I was on a trip now, for real, and I would find my way.

Today's trip was in a much minor scale. It was just for a day and close to the place where we live. However, I still got that nice feeling of being in our way, the same feeling I get every time the train starts moving, or the plane takes off, leaving home...